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Žena viackrát potratila, napokon si adoptovala 4 deti. Keď už myslela, že rodina je kompletná, prišla tá najnečakanejšia správa
Dominika Pacigová
Dominika Pacigová

Žena viackrát potratila, napokon si adoptovala 4 deti. Keď už myslela, že rodina je kompletná, prišla tá najnečakanejšia správa

Archívne zábery, Maxine a Jake Young sú v dnešných dňoch hrdými rodičmi deviatich detí.
Archívne zábery, Maxine a Jake Young sú v dnešných dňoch hrdými rodičmi deviatich detí. — Foto: instagram.com - maxinelee_y

Keď sa dozvedeli radostnú novinku, nedokázali uveriť vlastným očiam ani ušiam. Manželom sa splnil sen a v dnešných dňoch sú hrdými rodičmi deviatich detí.

HARRISBURG 3. septembra - V roku 2016 si povedali svoje áno a obaja túžili po veľkej rodine. Maxine a Jake Young sú v dnešných dňoch hrdými rodičmi deviatich detí. Mamina niekoľkokrát potratila, no nikdy sa nevzdala. V roku 2017 si s manželom vzali do pestúnskej starostlivosti štyri deti, ktoré si neskôr adoptovali. Medzičasom sa jej podarilo otehotnieť a priviedla na svet syna. Neskôr sa pokúsili ešte o jedno bábätko, no Maxine nakoniec priviedla na svet štvorčatá, informuje portál Daily Mail.

Šťastní rodičia

Maxine vždy snívala o veľkej rodine. Spočiatku však čelila nepríjemným správam, keďže niekoľkokrát potratila. Spolu s manželom si však boli vedomí toho, že viaceré deti potrebujú podať pomocnú ruku, a tak sa rozhodli pre pestúnsku starostlivosť. Absolvovali prípravu a 28. júla 2017 sa stali pestúnskymi rodičmi troch súrodencov. O mesiac neskôr k nim pribudla novonarodená sestrička. „Pravdou je, že sme zamilovaní do týchto troch, teraz už štyroch dušičiek. Nikdy sme si nemysleli, že by sme mohli mať štyri deti, no ich oddelenie by bolo nespravodlivé. Pestúnska starostlivosť nie je jednoduchá, ale stojí za každú sekundu,“ napísala Maxine na sociálnej sieti.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Some might say we are crazy, others absolutely nuts, but truth be told, we're in love. In love with three (now four) precious little souls. We never expected to go from zero to four children within a month, but we've fallen, fallen for this sweet little girls brothers and sister. Keeping them apart would be an injustice. We are too in love with her siblings to allow them to grow up not knowing her. & as soon as we laid eyes on this pretty little lady we loved her too. Foster care sure is hard. It's heartbreaking and beyond confusing, but it's also touching and worth every second. Welcome to the family little one. We will love you unconditionally for as long as your with us. ?

Príspevok, ktorý zdieľa @ maxinelee_y,

Medzičasom sa mamine splnil sen a otehotnela. Aj napriek tomu, že mala obavy, všetko dobre dopadlo a priviedla na svet biologického syna, ktorému dali spolu s manželom meno Henry.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

We dove in head first, without knowing how to swim. It felt like all we did was tread water for the first few months. Slowly, very slowly we began to learn one another, we got into a rhythm of things and it became second nature. Life was normal, or as normal as having 4 children in foster care could be. We had melted into a unit, we had become a family. Now don’t get me wrong, there were hard days where we went to bed wondering how we could go on. Days where I woke up asking for forgiveness and a second chance to be a better mother, but those days are far outnumbered by the good days, the days where I can’t wait to wake up and do it all again. YOU, you are the hero’s of this world. The silent soldiers who make this world a better place just by being in it. I am in awe of you. All of you. You have shown me what matters in this world. You have given me glasses so that I could see the world through a different lens. Unrelentingly beautiful souls who have persevered through the toughest of circumstances and come out surprisingly kind and trusting. The world needs more people like you in it. Thank you for everything you have done for me. I am eternally grateful for the joy you have brought into my life, the love you have shown me and the unimaginable strength you have displayed. I have had the most cherished honor of taking care of you, loving you and protecting you for the past two and a half years. It has changed me. You have made me better, in every way possible. Now I have the greatest honor of being your mama. You have given me the most meaningful and fulfilling role of my lifetime. Thank you for the forgiveness and grace you have shown me as I navigated my way through learning how to be a mother, for accepting me as I am, despite my flaws and for showing me that wishes and miracles aren’t only in the movies. You, all of you, you are magic.

Príspevok, ktorý zdieľa @ maxinelee_y,

Šťastná rodinka

S odstupom času sa však manželia rozhodli, že si adoptujú štyroch súrodencov, ktorých mali v pestúnskej starostlivosti. Maxine sa o niekoľko týždňov neskôr dozvedela, že je opäť tehotná. Neuveriteľné sa stalo skutočnosťou a gynekológ jej oznámil prekvapujúcu správu. „Verili sme, že do našej rodiny príde ešte jedno dieťa, no privítame štyri. Lekári nám odporúčali redukciu plodov, ale my sme to nedokázali urobiť. Cítili sme, že všetky naše deti si zaslúžia šancu,“ dodala Maxine.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Sometimes when you have a dream in your mind and hope in your heart, you create a wish. Even if you don’t actively pursue it, it’s always there lingering, and sometimes, if you are really lucky that wish can come true. Now there are those times that a wish is granted above and beyond what you ever expected, this, this is one of those times. We hoped for just one more baby to complete our family and our prayers were answered, x4. Yes, you read that right, FOUR babies. We suffered almost two years of heartache and loss to bring Henry into this world. It was a very hopeless period in our lives. At times, I remember thinking that it just wasn’t meant to be for us, so to say these babies are little miracles is truly an understatement. The quote “If you think our hands are full, you should see our hearts” Has never been more accurate. We feel like the luckiest parents in the world to not only have five of the most beautiful children imaginable but now to be given another remarkable gift, it’s just unbelievable really. BUT, with that being said, this is going to be a long and difficult journey. We are nervous, scared and overwhelmed.To have even gotten this far with quads is a shock, all we can hope and pray for is that at the end of all of this we can eventually bring home 4 healthy, happy babies. The risks are extremely high for not only the babies but for me as well. We were highly encouraged to reduce, strongly strongly advised that it was for the best, but we just couldn’t do it. We felt very passionately that all of our babies deserved a chance, how could we choose to end some of their lives, it just wasn’t the right decision for us. So here we are, pregnant with quads after years of struggling. The chances of conceiving quads without IVF or IUI are about 1 in a million. I couldn’t do this without such a strong and loving husband, who despite having so much on his shoulders already finds time to pick up all the pieces when I need it the most. Through all of our worries and fears we know that with unconditional love, a little bit of chaos and limitless devotion to our family we will handle whatever comes our way, together. ❤️

Príspevok, ktorý zdieľa @ maxinelee_y,

Manželia nedokázali uveriť vlastným očiam ani ušiam. Maxine priviedla na svet štvorčatá v 32. týždni tehotenstva. Ich srdce sa naplnilo radosťou a pokojom. Šťastná rodinka si užíva spoločne strávené chvíle a manželia sú nesmierne vďační za zázraky, ktoré sa udiali v ich živote.

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